Dating Red Flags
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Ah the red flag. Despite its brightness and its incessant waving in our faces, we ladies are still somehow able to ignore it. Why? Because we seem to think it is better to ignore a giant red flag in our relationships, than to be alone.
Trust me, I am not on a high horse here. I am the reigning queen of ignoring red flags. For example – take my “relationship” with D. (aka the guy I was pretty much in love with from ages 18 – 22). Now while I was off at college, studying English, this boy was living at his parents home, not going to college, working a crap job, smoking weed 15 times a day (his estimation, not mine), getting completely blacked out drunk (regularly) and losing his license after getting a DUI. Any one of these things could have been a red flag to me. Clearly, he and I were on different paths. However my little world revolved around him for all those years, simply because I was real good at ignoring the red flags.
But, as I get older and increasingly wiser, I am finding my ability to ignore these warnings is decreasing. With Mr. Not Quite Right, I realized his propensity to get blacked out regularly, was a problem within the first few weeks we were dating. With Mr. Cute but Whiny, I voiced my concerns about his ever-present ex girlfriend on date three. What’s interesting is that even though I recognized the red flags, I was still a little slow on taking action. True these more recent relationships only lasted a few months but, ultimately, these red flags were the things that lead me to dump them. Had I just acted on these red flags in the beginning, perhaps I’d already be dating the perfect guy by now.
This leads me to wonder, just how dangerous is ignoring red flags and what does it say about us that we are so quick to dismiss them? Now I am not advocating dumping someone the second there is something about their personality you don’t like. But when you feel that icky feeling in your tummy that a certain behavior is more than a one time mistake, perhaps it’s time to give this red flag a little more attention. In the long run, it could save you a lot of angst.
Anyone have any super awesome red flag stories? How about one that beats having his ex girlfriend show up on your second date? Yea, true story.
What Does Your Price Imply About Your Value?
How To Be With 4 Women At The Same Time
What Is The Worst That Could Happen?
11 Step Prep For A Night Out
The Number 1 Way To Have A One Night Stand
Disregard White Women - Acquire Currency
14 Dating Do’s And Don’t
Things I Learned From Being the Other Woman
How to Heal From A Break-Up
Friends-with-Chemistry
All the break-up feelings.
The Most Important Dating Lesson
Anatomy of Date: After.
Ah the red flag. Despite its brightness and its incessant waving in our faces, we ladies are still somehow able to ignore it. Why? Because we seem to think it is better to ignore a giant red flag in our relationships, than to be alone.
Trust me, I am not on a high horse here. I am the reigning queen of ignoring red flags. For example – take my “relationship” with D. (aka the guy I was pretty much in love with from ages 18 – 22). Now while I was off at college, studying English, this boy was living at his parents home, not going to college, working a crap job, smoking weed 15 times a day (his estimation, not mine), getting completely blacked out drunk (regularly) and losing his license after getting a DUI. Any one of these things could have been a red flag to me. Clearly, he and I were on different paths. However my little world revolved around him for all those years, simply because I was real good at ignoring the red flags.
But, as I get older and increasingly wiser, I am finding my ability to ignore these warnings is decreasing. With Mr. Not Quite Right, I realized his propensity to get blacked out regularly, was a problem within the first few weeks we were dating. With Mr. Cute but Whiny, I voiced my concerns about his ever-present ex girlfriend on date three. What’s interesting is that even though I recognized the red flags, I was still a little slow on taking action. True these more recent relationships only lasted a few months but, ultimately, these red flags were the things that lead me to dump them. Had I just acted on these red flags in the beginning, perhaps I’d already be dating the perfect guy by now.
This leads me to wonder, just how dangerous is ignoring red flags and what does it say about us that we are so quick to dismiss them? Now I am not advocating dumping someone the second there is something about their personality you don’t like. But when you feel that icky feeling in your tummy that a certain behavior is more than a one time mistake, perhaps it’s time to give this red flag a little more attention. In the long run, it could save you a lot of angst.
Anyone have any super awesome red flag stories? How about one that beats having his ex girlfriend show up on your second date? Yea, true story.
Début de l'événement
22.01.2022
Fin de l'événement
22.01.2022