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lovelysexybeauty PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 1:33 pm
Hey Tupac – I am not a Rules Girl. No worries though. I am only vaguely familiar with your opinions outside of your devotion to aliasclio, but I am guessing you are not interested in traditional marriage or being with one woman? If so, yes, a woman who doesn’t put out quickly wouldn’t be right for you. It’s all good, everyone should do what’s best for them.


Tupac Chopra PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 2:55 pm
LSB:

You seem to have misunderstood me. What I want or am looking for is irrelevant to the point I made. Which is: if a woman “settles” for me because she can’t snag the brass ring of a better guy and wants someone to just “stick around”, I will catch that whiff coming off of her and you can damn well bet I would NEVER consider any sort of serious relationship with a woman who felt that way about me.

It’s only when the woman’s feelings are TRUE, i.e., when she SURRENDERS, almost against her will to me, that I feel like I could trust her. I would never trust a woman who was able to stuff her sexual feelings into a box in order to dispassionately assess her actions towards me.

In other words, I would only have a serious relationship with a woman who considered me her alpha. Any woman who is too self-controlled is a woman who is making a rational business decision about her relationship, and I might just find myself outsourced when a “cheaper” form of labor becomes available. After all, no hard *feelings*, it’s just business, right?


Hope PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 3:33 pm
Tupac Chopra, you sound like an NF type. Many men are not intuitive enough to feel out if another person’s feelings are true.

And yes, that is ideal. A woman who truly loves a man would not be “settling.”
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