10 Reasons Why He Didn’t Call You Back
10 Reasons Why He Didn’t Call You Back
Description
How Pocket-Dialing Can C*ckblock You
Attack of The Killer Ex
How To Deal With A Psycho Ex During The Holidays
Attention Mongers Crybabies and Dramaheads
25 Signals You're Not Ready For a Online Dating
5 Skills Every Man And Woman Should Master
Can Sex Be A Laughing Matter?
The Sh*t Women Say That Piss Off Men
Dating a Jersey Shore Fan
Dealing With Exes on Valentine’s Day
A Decent Girl For a Nice Guy
So you went on a date with a guy from a dating personals ad and it’s been over three days and he still hasn’t called you back. Has he lost your number? No. Is he too busy saving the world? Unless you call playing PS3 saving the world, then no. There are reasons men don’t call girls after meeting them through online personals ads and here are 10 reasons why:
You’re Too Easy
Some guys like to work for their sex and if you give it up faster than Lindsay Lohan on a casting couch, we don’t want what you have to offer since it’s quite evident that you are offer it up a lot!
You’re A Bitch
There is such a thing of playing “too hard to get.” I know all those lame Katherine Heigl movies taught you that treating men like shit makes them want you more, but in fact, we don’t care for that at all. We just think you’re a super bitch and move on.
You Looked Like Hell
Sorry to say this ladies, but if you’re hunched over in your chair and we can see your chicken cutlets in your bra while you’re trying to nonchalantly sniff a booger back into your nose, we notice that! You also could just be butt ugly too. That’s a huge possibility.
You’re a Ditz!
If all you can possibly talk about are Princess Kate’s fertility problems and books you’re reading based off movies, then men have no interest wanting to connect with you on a deeper level.
You Smelled Horrible
I love how women think men are impervious to female body odor smells and menstrual blood. If we can tell you have to change your pad or tampon, then you should not be even pursuing a date let alone a husband.
He’s Already Involved With Someone Else
He just wanted to have sex with you and call it a day. At least with this option, your personal hygiene is not being criticized.
His Friend Said You Got Around
Men listen to their buds, no matter how dumb they are. If they say you are a slut, then chances are they will stay away from you. Sad, but true.
He Met Someone Better
Dating can be cruel sometimes. Next time, don’t talk about your Harry Potter obsession for the majority of the date.
You Ate Like A Pig
Next time, don’t order the ribs when you’re on a date. Control yourself! I know you can do it! Chew, chew, chew then swallow.
He Just Wants To Be Friends
Ha! Sorry…I’m just kidding. He may say this but he basically wants nothing to do with you and wants to go away without making a scene.
Attack of The Killer Ex
How To Deal With A Psycho Ex During The Holidays
Attention Mongers Crybabies and Dramaheads
25 Signals You're Not Ready For a Online Dating
5 Skills Every Man And Woman Should Master
Can Sex Be A Laughing Matter?
The Sh*t Women Say That Piss Off Men
Dating a Jersey Shore Fan
Dealing With Exes on Valentine’s Day
A Decent Girl For a Nice Guy
So you went on a date with a guy from a dating personals ad and it’s been over three days and he still hasn’t called you back. Has he lost your number? No. Is he too busy saving the world? Unless you call playing PS3 saving the world, then no. There are reasons men don’t call girls after meeting them through online personals ads and here are 10 reasons why:
You’re Too Easy
Some guys like to work for their sex and if you give it up faster than Lindsay Lohan on a casting couch, we don’t want what you have to offer since it’s quite evident that you are offer it up a lot!
You’re A Bitch
There is such a thing of playing “too hard to get.” I know all those lame Katherine Heigl movies taught you that treating men like shit makes them want you more, but in fact, we don’t care for that at all. We just think you’re a super bitch and move on.
You Looked Like Hell
Sorry to say this ladies, but if you’re hunched over in your chair and we can see your chicken cutlets in your bra while you’re trying to nonchalantly sniff a booger back into your nose, we notice that! You also could just be butt ugly too. That’s a huge possibility.
You’re a Ditz!
If all you can possibly talk about are Princess Kate’s fertility problems and books you’re reading based off movies, then men have no interest wanting to connect with you on a deeper level.
You Smelled Horrible
I love how women think men are impervious to female body odor smells and menstrual blood. If we can tell you have to change your pad or tampon, then you should not be even pursuing a date let alone a husband.
He’s Already Involved With Someone Else
He just wanted to have sex with you and call it a day. At least with this option, your personal hygiene is not being criticized.
His Friend Said You Got Around
Men listen to their buds, no matter how dumb they are. If they say you are a slut, then chances are they will stay away from you. Sad, but true.
He Met Someone Better
Dating can be cruel sometimes. Next time, don’t talk about your Harry Potter obsession for the majority of the date.
You Ate Like A Pig
Next time, don’t order the ribs when you’re on a date. Control yourself! I know you can do it! Chew, chew, chew then swallow.
He Just Wants To Be Friends
Ha! Sorry…I’m just kidding. He may say this but he basically wants nothing to do with you and wants to go away without making a scene.
Début de l'événement
13.12.2023
Fin de l'événement
13.12.2023
Beyond the Armor: How I Stopped Treating Love as a Conquest
Beyond the Armor: How I Stopped Treating Love as a Conquest
Description
Rediscovering Love on My Own Terms
Single Men Who Want More Women
Open Letter To Men Who Want More
For Men Who Love Poly Dating
Progressive Love Applauds Too $hort
Is Love the Most Feared Emotion?
Love Kills Self Love & Self Esteem
Are Nagging & Cheating Equally Damaging?
Why Do We Fall In Love? Is It Healthy?
Why Master Monogamy
1:57: My favorite part of the video begins as Carl Thomas returns to the screen to bless us with his “very successful” presence, his unbuttoned blouse reminding us all of when our grandmothers told us not to trust Michael Beach or any other light-skinned man who wears long-sleeved shirts with no undershirt.
Actually, after hearing him talk some (and reading some of the comments attached to this video at Clutch), I definitely think the producer was looking for a “Hill Harper-ass n*gga” to put in his video, and just found the first one he could find. I think I’m just going to call him Phil Farper.
2:10: Not to be outdone by Phil Farper’s Phil Farperness, a guy in a gray H&M blazer says, with a straight face, that he doesn’t have any flaws. Forget Diva Dude, this n*gga’s the motherf*ckin Hope Diamond.
2:20: As the jazz played in every sex scene in every Spike Lee movie ever made plays in the background, the clip ends with another cryptic voiceover about men being pussies and a shot of the DVD this trailer is based on. I think Dr. Buckingham should have chosen a better cover.
I have to say that, as far as trailers where the only women interviewed are in Greyhound station hair salons and the only men interviewed are at Kappa BBQs or prisons go, this wasn’t half bad. With that being said, there wasn’t any new insight. The crackheads selling lawnmowers outside of my barbershop could have told him that “good” Black men are single because they’re either too scared to commit or too full of themselves to even contemplate commitment, and they would have been much more entertaining interview subjects.
You know those assholes who never, ever, ever get sick and always feel the need to remind everyone any chance they get of the fact that they never, ever, ever get sick? You don’t? Well, congratulations. You’ve just met one of those assholes: Me.
I’m the guy who has never taken a true sick day at work and loves to remind people of that; the guy who will rock a blazer and a t-shirt on a 40 degree day and laugh at everyone who says I’m going to get sick; the guy who dated a person who had the freakin swine flu (seriously), slept in the same bed with her two nights in a row, and didn’t get as much as a sniffle.
Now, if this were a movie, the “I never get sick” guy would undoubtedly get some mysterious exotic elephant illness towards the middle of the movie as some sort of karmic payback for him incessantly bragging about his immune system. This character would probably be played by Jim Carrey or Dane Cook, and the title of the movie would probably be “Sick Day” or “No Flu Lou” or some shit.
Single Men Who Want More Women
Open Letter To Men Who Want More
For Men Who Love Poly Dating
Progressive Love Applauds Too $hort
Is Love the Most Feared Emotion?
Love Kills Self Love & Self Esteem
Are Nagging & Cheating Equally Damaging?
Why Do We Fall In Love? Is It Healthy?
Why Master Monogamy
1:57: My favorite part of the video begins as Carl Thomas returns to the screen to bless us with his “very successful” presence, his unbuttoned blouse reminding us all of when our grandmothers told us not to trust Michael Beach or any other light-skinned man who wears long-sleeved shirts with no undershirt.
Actually, after hearing him talk some (and reading some of the comments attached to this video at Clutch), I definitely think the producer was looking for a “Hill Harper-ass n*gga” to put in his video, and just found the first one he could find. I think I’m just going to call him Phil Farper.
2:10: Not to be outdone by Phil Farper’s Phil Farperness, a guy in a gray H&M blazer says, with a straight face, that he doesn’t have any flaws. Forget Diva Dude, this n*gga’s the motherf*ckin Hope Diamond.
2:20: As the jazz played in every sex scene in every Spike Lee movie ever made plays in the background, the clip ends with another cryptic voiceover about men being pussies and a shot of the DVD this trailer is based on. I think Dr. Buckingham should have chosen a better cover.
I have to say that, as far as trailers where the only women interviewed are in Greyhound station hair salons and the only men interviewed are at Kappa BBQs or prisons go, this wasn’t half bad. With that being said, there wasn’t any new insight. The crackheads selling lawnmowers outside of my barbershop could have told him that “good” Black men are single because they’re either too scared to commit or too full of themselves to even contemplate commitment, and they would have been much more entertaining interview subjects.
You know those assholes who never, ever, ever get sick and always feel the need to remind everyone any chance they get of the fact that they never, ever, ever get sick? You don’t? Well, congratulations. You’ve just met one of those assholes: Me.
I’m the guy who has never taken a true sick day at work and loves to remind people of that; the guy who will rock a blazer and a t-shirt on a 40 degree day and laugh at everyone who says I’m going to get sick; the guy who dated a person who had the freakin swine flu (seriously), slept in the same bed with her two nights in a row, and didn’t get as much as a sniffle.
Now, if this were a movie, the “I never get sick” guy would undoubtedly get some mysterious exotic elephant illness towards the middle of the movie as some sort of karmic payback for him incessantly bragging about his immune system. This character would probably be played by Jim Carrey or Dane Cook, and the title of the movie would probably be “Sick Day” or “No Flu Lou” or some shit.
Début de l'événement
10.12.2021
Fin de l'événement
10.12.2021
Boyfriend Gift Guide: The Best Presents To Get Him
Boyfriend Gift Guide: The Best Presents To Get Him
Description
Want to avoid an encounter with your man’s fake ‘This-is-the-best-gift-ever!’ smile? The Life2PointOh team of elves are bringing the genuine holiday cheer!
Plug In: The top items on 20-something guys’ wish lists are electronics! (Are you surprised?) The iPad2 remains numero uno!
Dress Up: He loathes shopping for clothes, so why not shop for him? Frye boots are a hot item on the men’s apparel list!
Cheer On: Every girl knows the way to an athletic guy’s heart is through sports tickets. It’s unanimous – boyfriends love unwrapping tickets to see their fave sports team.
Turn Up: iDocks for the iPod, iPad and iPhone are on the top of many lists. The Ozaki iSuppli Gramo iPhone Charger Speaker is one of the more reasonably priced docks listed in Rolling Stone’s 2011 Rock & Roll Gift Guide and is sure to win “The Best Gift Award” from your man-friend.
Clock In: It may come as a shock, but the majority of 20-something guys in relationships said they’d like a nice evening alone with their girlfriends. (Cue the Awws!) Whether it’s a dinner date or movie night, all they want for Christmas is simple…YOU!
Still not sure what to get him? We asked a handful of 20-something dudes to share their favorite gifts from their lady loves.
“Opera Tickets! She picked a show I had referenced as being my favorite in college and then hid the tickets inside of a ridiculously cheesy zombie book – because zombies are awesome!” – Kevin, 27, NYC
“The best gift I received from a girlfriend was a Swedish massage at a tranquility spa. The reason why this was so special was because I got the massage and was then taken to the spa, where I proceeded to pass out from the extreme relaxation.” – John, 29, Philadelphia
“I’m a huge Lakers fan, so my girlfriend got me a Lakers jersey and tickets to see a game.” – Adam, 22, NYC
“My girlfriend painted a ridiculously amazing picture of the two of us. It was the most meaningful and thoughtful gift.” – Justin, 28, Los Angeles
“My very first girlfriend bought me a vintage record player and some of my favorite albums on vinyl. We eventually broke up, but I still have the record player.” – Mike, 23, Jacksonville, FL
What are you getting your Mr. Sexy Pants this year?
Three Men To Avoid At The Bar
About Bad Guys And The Women Who Love Them
The Gangsta’s Guide To Watching Chick Flicks
When Your Valentine is Your Daughter
How To Date Like A Psychopath
What Women Find Irresistible
What Exactly Makes a “Good” Parent?
Who’s the No. 1 Woman in a Man’s Life?
Spouse or Parents…or Kids: Who Rank “First?”
We All Know That Black Girls Do That Right?
Modern Male Emasculation
The Surprising Power of a Simple Word in Dating
Plug In: The top items on 20-something guys’ wish lists are electronics! (Are you surprised?) The iPad2 remains numero uno!
Dress Up: He loathes shopping for clothes, so why not shop for him? Frye boots are a hot item on the men’s apparel list!
Cheer On: Every girl knows the way to an athletic guy’s heart is through sports tickets. It’s unanimous – boyfriends love unwrapping tickets to see their fave sports team.
Turn Up: iDocks for the iPod, iPad and iPhone are on the top of many lists. The Ozaki iSuppli Gramo iPhone Charger Speaker is one of the more reasonably priced docks listed in Rolling Stone’s 2011 Rock & Roll Gift Guide and is sure to win “The Best Gift Award” from your man-friend.
Clock In: It may come as a shock, but the majority of 20-something guys in relationships said they’d like a nice evening alone with their girlfriends. (Cue the Awws!) Whether it’s a dinner date or movie night, all they want for Christmas is simple…YOU!
Still not sure what to get him? We asked a handful of 20-something dudes to share their favorite gifts from their lady loves.
“Opera Tickets! She picked a show I had referenced as being my favorite in college and then hid the tickets inside of a ridiculously cheesy zombie book – because zombies are awesome!” – Kevin, 27, NYC
“The best gift I received from a girlfriend was a Swedish massage at a tranquility spa. The reason why this was so special was because I got the massage and was then taken to the spa, where I proceeded to pass out from the extreme relaxation.” – John, 29, Philadelphia
“I’m a huge Lakers fan, so my girlfriend got me a Lakers jersey and tickets to see a game.” – Adam, 22, NYC
“My girlfriend painted a ridiculously amazing picture of the two of us. It was the most meaningful and thoughtful gift.” – Justin, 28, Los Angeles
“My very first girlfriend bought me a vintage record player and some of my favorite albums on vinyl. We eventually broke up, but I still have the record player.” – Mike, 23, Jacksonville, FL
What are you getting your Mr. Sexy Pants this year?
Three Men To Avoid At The Bar
About Bad Guys And The Women Who Love Them
The Gangsta’s Guide To Watching Chick Flicks
When Your Valentine is Your Daughter
How To Date Like A Psychopath
What Women Find Irresistible
What Exactly Makes a “Good” Parent?
Who’s the No. 1 Woman in a Man’s Life?
Spouse or Parents…or Kids: Who Rank “First?”
We All Know That Black Girls Do That Right?
Modern Male Emasculation
The Surprising Power of a Simple Word in Dating
Début de l'événement
29.11.2021
Fin de l'événement
29.11.2021
How To Worship A Woman
How To Worship A Woman
Description
Do I Belong With You or Do You Own Me?
Is Jealousy a Human Survival Mechanism?
What is Fidelity?
Aren’t Open Relationships All About Sex?
So, You Found Out He’s Lying…
What To Do With a Badly Behaving Lover?
Girls Runs The World?!
The One Topic Men And Women Never Agree On
How To Date A Virgin
One of the things I love about working closely with Kenya K Stevens and the
Jujumama family is that we get to solve problems. We enjoy taking an
active role in making the lives of our members better.
We are all living in a world that can be stressful and evoke feelings of fear in us. For that reason it is important that we find ways to cool nerves before conversations. Communication between men and women is very important and can be hampered due to unresolved stress.
In an earlier post called How To Worship A Man I made the suggestion that women take a moment to serve their men up with some oral sensuality and a great big hoagie sandwich before having conversations about deep matters. This stress relieving combination soothes the inside and allows clear minds for us men. A clear mind is better suited for finding solutions rather than wallowing in tension.
To be balanced we had to develop a similar healing ritual for women on edge who need
that special kind of engagement to help ease the stress of the day. I had some help from the Juju family to come up with this great solution and trust me, it works.
Woman Worship Ritual #1
When your woman is pissed, tensed, stressed or over worked, instead of taking it personal guys, sit her down, turn off the television, dim the lights and wash her feet! Bring a bowl of warm water with great soap and just giver her feet a loving soak and wash – you may want to keep a supply of dark organic chocolate nearby so that you can offer it to her during the bath…
When there is drama with the children sit her down and massage her toes and hand her some Godiva. It’s ok to give her some sweet chocolate sometimes. This is a special treat and yo’re training her mind to relax at the sight of a treat, as you’re working the reflexology points in her feet.
When her boss is feeling especially fussy manipulate the meridians in her feet while she nibbles on some nestle. Sure, if you didn’t have time to find the nutrient rich organic dark chocolate, you can grab a Nestle bar on the way home, especially if she called you fussing about work.
I promise she will still be a lil irritated, however you will be all good in her book when you do not take her anger as a personal attack against you. After you work her feet and feed her some hormonal bliss by way of chocolate, you can sit and discuss how to solve the problem. She’ll be more calm and relaxed and you will be the hero!
Trust me, as Carl mentioned in his book, Tame Your Woman, a man who stays above a woman’s emotions, surfs on those emotions like they are waves that cannot take you under, will come out on top! (Maybe literally)
Now I’ve been told that following a footbath and some chocolate, other types of soothing activities could also be very much appreciated, but you have to do your own research on that.
Is Jealousy a Human Survival Mechanism?
What is Fidelity?
Aren’t Open Relationships All About Sex?
So, You Found Out He’s Lying…
What To Do With a Badly Behaving Lover?
Girls Runs The World?!
The One Topic Men And Women Never Agree On
How To Date A Virgin
One of the things I love about working closely with Kenya K Stevens and the
Jujumama family is that we get to solve problems. We enjoy taking an
active role in making the lives of our members better.
We are all living in a world that can be stressful and evoke feelings of fear in us. For that reason it is important that we find ways to cool nerves before conversations. Communication between men and women is very important and can be hampered due to unresolved stress.
In an earlier post called How To Worship A Man I made the suggestion that women take a moment to serve their men up with some oral sensuality and a great big hoagie sandwich before having conversations about deep matters. This stress relieving combination soothes the inside and allows clear minds for us men. A clear mind is better suited for finding solutions rather than wallowing in tension.
To be balanced we had to develop a similar healing ritual for women on edge who need
that special kind of engagement to help ease the stress of the day. I had some help from the Juju family to come up with this great solution and trust me, it works.
Woman Worship Ritual #1
When your woman is pissed, tensed, stressed or over worked, instead of taking it personal guys, sit her down, turn off the television, dim the lights and wash her feet! Bring a bowl of warm water with great soap and just giver her feet a loving soak and wash – you may want to keep a supply of dark organic chocolate nearby so that you can offer it to her during the bath…
When there is drama with the children sit her down and massage her toes and hand her some Godiva. It’s ok to give her some sweet chocolate sometimes. This is a special treat and yo’re training her mind to relax at the sight of a treat, as you’re working the reflexology points in her feet.
When her boss is feeling especially fussy manipulate the meridians in her feet while she nibbles on some nestle. Sure, if you didn’t have time to find the nutrient rich organic dark chocolate, you can grab a Nestle bar on the way home, especially if she called you fussing about work.
I promise she will still be a lil irritated, however you will be all good in her book when you do not take her anger as a personal attack against you. After you work her feet and feed her some hormonal bliss by way of chocolate, you can sit and discuss how to solve the problem. She’ll be more calm and relaxed and you will be the hero!
Trust me, as Carl mentioned in his book, Tame Your Woman, a man who stays above a woman’s emotions, surfs on those emotions like they are waves that cannot take you under, will come out on top! (Maybe literally)
Now I’ve been told that following a footbath and some chocolate, other types of soothing activities could also be very much appreciated, but you have to do your own research on that.
Début de l'événement
10.12.2021
Fin de l'événement
10.12.2021
Magasin de pierres précieuses
Magasin de pierres précieuses
Début de l'événement
20.02.2024
Fin de l'événement
20.02.2024
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Maturity Matters: The Girl-Woman Divide
Maturity Matters: The Girl-Woman Divide
Description
Ladies We Need Answers
The Difference Between Girls and Women
On Dating: Experienced or Just Plain Damaged?
A Chosen Season: On Being Single in My Late 20s
The Painful Friends With Benefits Cycle
10 Reasons Why You Might Still Be Single
The Things Women Say That Piss Off Men
Challenges Of A Male Relationship Blogger
Why Relationships Commitment Scares Me
The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have
Don’t Tell Me Where To Be Romantic!
Tickle Me Cheater
lovelysexybeauty PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 1:33 pm
Hey Tupac – I am not a Rules Girl. No worries though. I am only vaguely familiar with your opinions outside of your devotion to aliasclio, but I am guessing you are not interested in traditional marriage or being with one woman? If so, yes, a woman who doesn’t put out quickly wouldn’t be right for you. It’s all good, everyone should do what’s best for them.
Tupac Chopra PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 2:55 pm
LSB:
You seem to have misunderstood me. What I want or am looking for is irrelevant to the point I made. Which is: if a woman “settles” for me because she can’t snag the brass ring of a better guy and wants someone to just “stick around”, I will catch that whiff coming off of her and you can damn well bet I would NEVER consider any sort of serious relationship with a woman who felt that way about me.
It’s only when the woman’s feelings are TRUE, i.e., when she SURRENDERS, almost against her will to me, that I feel like I could trust her. I would never trust a woman who was able to stuff her sexual feelings into a box in order to dispassionately assess her actions towards me.
In other words, I would only have a serious relationship with a woman who considered me her alpha. Any woman who is too self-controlled is a woman who is making a rational business decision about her relationship, and I might just find myself outsourced when a “cheaper” form of labor becomes available. After all, no hard *feelings*, it’s just business, right?
Hope PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 3:33 pm
Tupac Chopra, you sound like an NF type. Many men are not intuitive enough to feel out if another person’s feelings are true.
And yes, that is ideal. A woman who truly loves a man would not be “settling.”
The Difference Between Girls and Women
On Dating: Experienced or Just Plain Damaged?
A Chosen Season: On Being Single in My Late 20s
The Painful Friends With Benefits Cycle
10 Reasons Why You Might Still Be Single
The Things Women Say That Piss Off Men
Challenges Of A Male Relationship Blogger
Why Relationships Commitment Scares Me
The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have
Don’t Tell Me Where To Be Romantic!
Tickle Me Cheater
lovelysexybeauty PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 1:33 pm
Hey Tupac – I am not a Rules Girl. No worries though. I am only vaguely familiar with your opinions outside of your devotion to aliasclio, but I am guessing you are not interested in traditional marriage or being with one woman? If so, yes, a woman who doesn’t put out quickly wouldn’t be right for you. It’s all good, everyone should do what’s best for them.
Tupac Chopra PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 2:55 pm
LSB:
You seem to have misunderstood me. What I want or am looking for is irrelevant to the point I made. Which is: if a woman “settles” for me because she can’t snag the brass ring of a better guy and wants someone to just “stick around”, I will catch that whiff coming off of her and you can damn well bet I would NEVER consider any sort of serious relationship with a woman who felt that way about me.
It’s only when the woman’s feelings are TRUE, i.e., when she SURRENDERS, almost against her will to me, that I feel like I could trust her. I would never trust a woman who was able to stuff her sexual feelings into a box in order to dispassionately assess her actions towards me.
In other words, I would only have a serious relationship with a woman who considered me her alpha. Any woman who is too self-controlled is a woman who is making a rational business decision about her relationship, and I might just find myself outsourced when a “cheaper” form of labor becomes available. After all, no hard *feelings*, it’s just business, right?
Hope PERMALINK
October 20, 2009 3:33 pm
Tupac Chopra, you sound like an NF type. Many men are not intuitive enough to feel out if another person’s feelings are true.
And yes, that is ideal. A woman who truly loves a man would not be “settling.”
Début de l'événement
12.12.2021
Fin de l'événement
12.12.2021
Self-Love Practices to Attract Healthy Relationships
Self-Love Practices to Attract Healthy Relationships
Description
The 5 Warning Signs Of A Bad Relationship
Stop Comparing Us To Aidan From Sex And The City!
The Truth About Women’s Dating Blogs
Is Bradley Cooper The Male Carrie Bradshaw?
My Low-Maintenance Dream Girl Wishlist
The Little Things Women Do That Turn Men On
Being A Bitch Can Save Your Love Life
Why Your Dating Standards Start with You
The Backlash of Fornication for Single Christians
Learn to Trust God’s Warnings in Relationships
10 Qualities Saved Sisters Seek in a Man
Overcoming Dating Angst as a Christian
many thanks to ALL of the above comments and the time you all took to give me thoughts to chew on. I just want to be clear that I am discussing sexual attraction, and am not delving into the nuances of long term love potential. Yes, sex can lead to love and as my ace boon Dumi reminds me, cutting off sex is often cutting of love possibilities. And though both love and sexual attraction are complicated and politically constructed, there is something, at least in the most primal sense for me, that doesn’t let me point a finger at feminism for a lack of recipricated sexual interest. I also want to be clear that though our discussion of men here can be broad, the author in the original CFC post seemed to be speaking specifically of intellectual/progressive men who, I am assuming, would not be put off or disinterested in dating feminist women. The play of feminism into our romantic lives as women can play into a RANGE of outcomes, including men who are turned on, patriarchs who want to prove we’re sham and just need to be subdued by good dick, men who are turned off because they can’t take no head-strong woman poppin off bout that woman power bullshit, and my personal favorite, THE FAKE MALE FEMINIST (names redacted to protect the innocent).
This conversation is really rich. I hate that I even interrupted it. Carry on.
Sofia
July 15, 2010 at 1:59 pm
First, I’d like to take a poll. How many of the women here have been or know of another woman who has been told any variation on the following statement. Mind you, I do mean EVER – by a person of any sex or gender identity, on a date, in the workplace, at the family BBQ.
“You’re so smart, it’s scary.”
*raises hand*
Stop Comparing Us To Aidan From Sex And The City!
The Truth About Women’s Dating Blogs
Is Bradley Cooper The Male Carrie Bradshaw?
My Low-Maintenance Dream Girl Wishlist
The Little Things Women Do That Turn Men On
Being A Bitch Can Save Your Love Life
Why Your Dating Standards Start with You
The Backlash of Fornication for Single Christians
Learn to Trust God’s Warnings in Relationships
10 Qualities Saved Sisters Seek in a Man
Overcoming Dating Angst as a Christian
many thanks to ALL of the above comments and the time you all took to give me thoughts to chew on. I just want to be clear that I am discussing sexual attraction, and am not delving into the nuances of long term love potential. Yes, sex can lead to love and as my ace boon Dumi reminds me, cutting off sex is often cutting of love possibilities. And though both love and sexual attraction are complicated and politically constructed, there is something, at least in the most primal sense for me, that doesn’t let me point a finger at feminism for a lack of recipricated sexual interest. I also want to be clear that though our discussion of men here can be broad, the author in the original CFC post seemed to be speaking specifically of intellectual/progressive men who, I am assuming, would not be put off or disinterested in dating feminist women. The play of feminism into our romantic lives as women can play into a RANGE of outcomes, including men who are turned on, patriarchs who want to prove we’re sham and just need to be subdued by good dick, men who are turned off because they can’t take no head-strong woman poppin off bout that woman power bullshit, and my personal favorite, THE FAKE MALE FEMINIST (names redacted to protect the innocent).
This conversation is really rich. I hate that I even interrupted it. Carry on.
Sofia
July 15, 2010 at 1:59 pm
First, I’d like to take a poll. How many of the women here have been or know of another woman who has been told any variation on the following statement. Mind you, I do mean EVER – by a person of any sex or gender identity, on a date, in the workplace, at the family BBQ.
“You’re so smart, it’s scary.”
*raises hand*
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6jackie February 21, 2010 at 3:39 AM
MG, truer words were never spoken. It is all about the flow and when it’s there, you go with it. BTW, you know a conversation we had inspired another piece on here, yes?
xo
jfb
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7Sherell February 22, 2010 at 11:05 PM
Grat read and Interesting, but I disagree. I have gone on many first dates and realized that the guy was not for me, so certainly no sex. Great for you and others that don’t hold it against women but I have friends that have met women, and discounted them because they gave it up too soon. They relegated them to thejump off category. Some guys actually test women to see they will give it up. I do not agree with it but it happens.
Personally, I like to spend some time getting to know the person, even when I am sexually attracted to them. For me intimacy is better when I know someone. No hard or fast rule on the timing, just when it feels right. It could be 1 month or 2 or even less. In some cases, something came up that changed my decision.
Just my take
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8jackie February 22, 2010 at 11:18 PM
Change You Can Believe In: Yourself
Quick to Pass Judgment
Why Some People Hate Valentine’s Day
I’m Single on Valentine’s Day
My Secret Social Identity
What Exactly Is Dating? It’s Ambiguous.
Why Love Is Not a First Sight Thing
Chivalry Makes Women Feel Good
Relationship Experts: Hate The Player Or The Game?
The Double Standard of Men and Women
The Double Standard of Men and Women
The Double Standard of Men and Women
8 Ways to Make a Guy Not Want to Sleep with You
8 Ways to Make a Woman NOT Want to Sleep with You
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6jackie February 21, 2010 at 3:39 AM
MG, truer words were never spoken. It is all about the flow and when it’s there, you go with it. BTW, you know a conversation we had inspired another piece on here, yes?
xo
jfb
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7Sherell February 22, 2010 at 11:05 PM
Grat read and Interesting, but I disagree. I have gone on many first dates and realized that the guy was not for me, so certainly no sex. Great for you and others that don’t hold it against women but I have friends that have met women, and discounted them because they gave it up too soon. They relegated them to thejump off category. Some guys actually test women to see they will give it up. I do not agree with it but it happens.
Personally, I like to spend some time getting to know the person, even when I am sexually attracted to them. For me intimacy is better when I know someone. No hard or fast rule on the timing, just when it feels right. It could be 1 month or 2 or even less. In some cases, something came up that changed my decision.
Just my take
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8jackie February 22, 2010 at 11:18 PM
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